As weird as It sounds, act as though you are his girlfriend, listen to him, learn to flirt with him, accept his aloof and detached behavior, even talk about things that he really enjoys talking about.
But don't bring up a relationship or your feelings about It.
I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years. Unfortunately from the beginning I knew, that If there was not a difference In our religion, everything would be fine, I just could not let religion to break us apart. I can't believe, that In the and I let religion break our happiness, our true love.
I would like to know If I could save It and make It work. I want to help him to understand why I have done what I have done.
I didn't speak to him In months, he seemed very stubborn and doesn't like to be the first to get In contact. He was very cold and distant but Invited me round his place.
We ended up being intimate even though when we were seeing each other we went no further than kissing (As I wasn't ready) The next day he told me In an email he wasn't Interested In a relationship with me, he doesn't know why but he just Isn't. When I spent the night with him he told me lovely things, missing me and wanting me back. He said maybe he just needs time, and Its been a few days and I've not heard from him.
We haven't had any discussions about commitment -wouldn't even consider us boy-/girlfriend.