Then there is also that desire to have grandchildren that look like little versions of their elders.
Obviously to having a mixed race children will interfere or complicate that wish.
As appealing as I might find the idea of dating an atheist (especially because I've had so few opportunities to do so), I would be crazy to turn my back on Christians.
My most rewarding relationships have been with Christians.
However I don't automatically then wish to date men of other races.