That I don’t mind playing up my femme side from time to time doesn’t help either.
But the invalidation of our sexualities only grows when bisexual individuals don’t express their gender identities in conventional ways.
There are spaces for gay men, lesbian women, bisexual women, and trans women to express femininity.
Aside from confusing people with regard to my sexuality, it also hurts my chances with straight women. (If anything, our relationship was far more physical than anything else.) “Then what’s the deal?
In my freshmen year of college, a girl I was seeing for a few months ended the relationship because of my femininity. ” I asked her when she broke the news of our breakup. ” I asked, knowing her answer before she even said it.
That’s why I believe femme bisexual men can be revolutionary.