Maybe." The answer will always be "no," but you will never really know.
It took me a long time to learn not to take anything personal when it comes to the kids of a boyfriend or girlfriend. They just don't like the fact that Dad has a girlfriend.
You turn to your guy and look into those beautiful eyes. And then you ask, "So, when do you think your divorce is going to be finalized? Some people have a rule that they won't date people who aren't officially divorced. People think if someone isn't divorced, there's a chance they might reconcile with their ex.
He just kissed you and you feel happier and more loved and content than you've ever felt in your life. " I feel I am somewhat of an authority when it comes to knowing the divorced guy. I can also attest to the fact that there are certain questions a new girlfriend can ask too soon--questions that will turn him off so fast, your head will spin. Why would you want to jump in and get the kids together? Because if they get close to his kids, and then you and the guy split up, the kids are the ones who suffer another loss, new friends that they will never see again.
" If this was a movie scene, this is the moment the romantic music abruptly stops and the audience gasps. When do you think your divorce is going to be finalized? That might be true, but someone can get back together with their ex at any time, even if there's a divorce decree that's been sitting on their desk for five years. She is not only the mother of his children, but the two of them stood in front of God and took vows. If you ask this question, you better make sure you are able to handle the answer.
I really hope I don't embarrass her and most of all, I don't embarrass myself.
Let me make it clear that we did hang out a couple times in the past and we used to talk a lot.
after 4 months dating, he asked me to move in with him, but he didnt say he loves me, so I asked him where we are standing, he said he likes me and thinks if we move in, our relationship has a big chance to succeed.