In fact, if you’re dating someone who’s really into you, he’ll routinely touch your arm when he’s talking, stroke your back reassuringly, and hold your hand when the time is right.
These displays of affection show respect, intimacy, and interest.
So stop keeping score on flowers, gifts, and fancy dinners.
Instead, pay attention to the little things, especially your potential boyfriend’s behavior both on dates and in between.
If you feel comfortable, let him know you’re interested by gently touching him in a similar fashion from time to time. He Takes an Interest in your Interests A surefire way to know if your man sees a future with you is if he takes an interest in your interests.
Even if it’s something that doesn’t appeal to him, like Pilates, painting, or your Portuguese language lessons, he’ll encourage you to pursue your interests and ask you about them.
If he leans in when you talk, keeps his torso facing you, maintains eye contact, and doesn’t cross his arms and legs defensively, he’s showing you his emotional availability and interest through his body.