Example: During the date, when you feel it’s going well, say to her playfully: “Next time we have dinner, you order the wine,” or “Next time we meet, when we see a movie, I bet you’ll talk all the way through it.” As you can tell, these examples have a playful undertone to them, but most importantly, they are PRESUMING that there will be another date without a flimsy question dangling at the end of it.Any vague or generic compliments need to be abolished from the conversation.Awww, how cute, but with that line, you may have just sentenced yourself to the dreaded “friend zone”.
Although you might think it’s a great way to get her to open up and that it will give her the impression that you really want to get to know the REAL her (unlike all the other guys), it usually just ends up as an awkward one-way conversation.
Do you really want to hear all the grizzly details of her past relationships or how she cut herself when she was shaving her legs earlier that day?
If she doesn’t like your choice of venue, then make up for it in the interaction.
If the venue is more important to her than spending time with you, she’s not a keeper.
Yes, all is lost by the end of most first dates, and there is little hope for men to correct these issues . Many of these professionals have been helping men just like you for years and years; so believe in what they say. When your intentions are clear, your meeting will be purposeful.