I really like it asking me questions even if some of them are out of the blue because it opens up my thinking in good ways.
Addendum: The power and freezing issues appear to have been resolved!
To the best of your ability, involve yourself in as many portions of your spouse’s life as you can and get to know your spouse’s friends. ” By doing this, you ensure that you are involved in the major parts of your partner's life and decrease the chances of someone else winning their attention.
Have a barbeque for their co-workers and get to know them. This is not meant to give permission for one partner to hover over the other.
Even though it may hurt him, if you don’t have the feelings for him that he has for you, knowing the truth is always better than not.