For example, people on the spectrum allegedly (a) talk forever without pause about their favorite topic; (b) say things in conversation that are inappropriate, divergent or tactless; (c) respond violently to frustrating situations; (d) fail to read others’ standard body language; (e) are not good at small talk, especially intimate bantering; (f) dislike establishing eye contact; and (g) can’t do things that require social interaction …just to name a few.
I️ excel at work and have never been reprimanded, The sad truth of it is that had they seen the label instead of the person their opinions would have changed• Anonymous said… I hope in the future there is a dating site strictly for aspies. Everyone is different, just because you had a shitty experience doesn't mean everyone else will and that you should preach that no one should date an aspie.• Anonymous said… I only wish he had as much interest in understanding me as I do him.• Anonymous said… I love him to pieces and think he and my daughter are the greatest things since sliced bread.
Like most things in life, I find it's a very mixed thing. There are times when it isn't perfect, but what the heck is? So many people questioned how I could be with him, given I'm super spiritual and he's a progressive humanist, I tell them plain and simple, "He's the greatest man I've ever met." My aspie has all the traits listed in the second half of the article. Negativity comes mostly from people who are in relationship with some one with Asperger... Maybe it's a gift to the person that has it, but for those around them , I would say that 70-80% of the experience is negative.• Anonymous said… Mine is 14 and he's determined, clever, thoughtful, pragmatic, money-concious and polite.• Anonymous said…
A lot of men with Asperger’s (AS) – also called “high functioning autism” – have never been diagnosed and are regarded as being eccentric, a little odd or loners.
If you are in a relationship with a man on the autism spectrum, you have probably noticed many of the traits listed below.
Here are just a few (and there are many more that I could add to the list): 1.