That means you won’t end up investing several months of your life into somebody else’s life only to find out their ambitions are completely different from your own.
It’s a softly, softly approach – excellent for those new to internet dating or nervous about entering the melee, or using a fast-food dating app like Tinder.
Cons: The lengthy survey you must complete before you sign up.
Now there is far less of a value judgement hidden in that statement, isn’t there? Offline there are so many things you need to keep track of—your clothes, your body language, even how you smell. What’s more, sometimes your date shouts so loudly your actual words don’t manage to come over the top; in which case, what you’re trying to say gets lost in the maelstrom of ideas.
When communicating online, that’s much less of a problem; you can get to know somebody for what their beliefs, morals and ideas are, before you let all that other stuff weigh in.
If we’re a great match, we’d love to tell you more about joining our family of writers.