In fact one of them is a friend of mine and he flat out stated that he preferred a woman who (and I remember almost exactly what he said because it wowed me so much considering the types of girls he always dates lol) said "If it were up to me I'd rather have a woman who's a size 18 and comfortable with herself than one who is a size 6 and always obsessing about her weight." So maybe it's as much about self confidence for some men as it is about the weight issue.
I think everyone has their specific likes and dislikes; it's not wrong or right..just is. What about the song about a big butt woman1 everyone has differnt taste.
While I think I look more attractive now than I did before, I don't think it is so much so that I should get advances from so much more men.
I am just in a normal weight range so I am not off limits.
A girl can be a normal weight and have meat on her bones. I know a lot of men who would take a women with extra weight as long as she is comfortable with herself and is confident.
I have always had a weight problem and have never had an issue with men.
He says that if i were to gain the 50llbs again, and be as confident as i am now, he would still be attracted to me. If you are confident and are comfortble with your body, others notice this and flock to you.