As the old song says, “accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative and don’t mess with Mr in between.” Focus on the activities that you love and would enjoy doing together with someone.
For instance, if wasting valuable Play Station time on a Sunday, to visit art galleries and museums is your thing, then put that in your match profile.
If you own a pair of cowboy boots then we won’t be compatible.
Good quality body lotion, perfume (no fragrances of Beyonce, Britney Spears or Jennifer Lopez please) and please no Lady Gaga, One Direction or Miley Cyrus songs in your possession.
Second, you need to create for yourself a profile, profile name and a photo that expresses who you are, and which in turn attracts the sort of people who want you.