You don’t need to know someone’s entire back story before you meet them.
Spending time with them and seeing how they treat you and interact with the world around them will tell you far more than any amount of questions ever could.
You’ve both taken the step to join e Harmony and will have had some experiences, both good and bad, that you can share with each other.
What someone relays about their experience can be quite revealing about them as a person.
While someone’s past has helped form the person they are today, it’s not as important as how they choose to live now.