The studies also indicate that men who hire prostitutes are only slightly more likely to be single than married.
Although the wives of such men may feel the behavior reflects on their desirability, my experience tells me that such a pattern of behavior doesn’t have anything to do with the wife’s attractiveness.
It says something about the man who, most often loves and feels committed to his partner.
The sex addict feels unlovable and insecure and meets his needs for sexual abandon in a contrived, compartmentalized way.
Sex addicts feel bad about their addictive behavior afterward but they continue to do it.
Unfortunately there is not enough known about the demographics of the John population or the prevalence of psychological problems. Paying for sex and sex addiction I feel on firmer ground talking about the kinds of relationship dynamics that are commonly seen in men who show up for sex addiction treatment where paying for sex is one of their compulsive behaviors.